I dont know who needs to hear this
August 27, 2023
To all entrepreneurs and founders, I dont know who needs to hear this, but the singular denominator for success is determination & grit. As you navigate the challenges of today's market, bear this principle before considering any retreat. We find ourselves in uniquely demanding economic times, with uncertainties possibly extending into the foreseeable future. However, it's during these exact turbulent periods that resilient businesses are built and solid foundations laid. The ventures that persevere now will likely emerge as market leaders in the next decade, outperforming their counterparts from more stable years. As a nod to the modern age, and with a hint of levity, I offer my "TikTok wisdom": Maintain your strategic vision, adapt when necessary, and above all, keep driving forward.
Intro:
Many wait for the stars to align, seeking the ideal beginning moment, oblivious that commencement itself is that moment. I revere the spirit of entrepreneurship, saluting the brave, the bold, and the spirited hearts, the founders (!) who dare to initiate change, pave a path, and, most importantly, continue walking it, no matter what. Their journey is often arduous, laden with challenges invisible to the everyday observer. True understanding is often only seen by those on such a journey themselves. Authentic leadership is shaped by experience: taking responsibility, being accountable, standing in the front row, being in the trenches, and embracing risk.
Similarly, happiness arises when whatever you undertake is fueled by the courage to build, allowing moments of respite, joy, and introspection and ultimately leading to pride in oneself. Time and health stand out as our most treasured asset, all the while overshadowed by life's inevitable end. Recognizing this truth, living a life merely mirroring the masses should not be our aim. Guard your time diligently. If unresolved battles from this life resurface in the next, be prepared to confront them now. Reframe your narrative. Stay the course. Holding resentment empowers you, but blaming others cedes your power to them. Stand tall, resilient, and sovereign in your journey.
Some Learnings:
In our journey, we often become storytellers of our own lives, setting our tales to fit the eyes of others. But while we're gripped in past chapters, we forget: our hand still holds the pen, and pages lie blank ahead. Living within the bounds of an old narrative can silence our inner voice, preventing us from writing freely on new pages. It's like holding onto old knowledge so tightly that there's no room to grasp the unknown. We must empty our cup to evolve, making space for fresh insights. Remember: Be like water, ever-flowing, adapting, and carving new paths.
In the tapestry of life, perspective and context weave the threads of understanding. There is no single truth; all is perception, ever-fluid and shaped by collective thought. What we deem as reality is but a reflection of individual lenses. In moments of doubt, pause. Breathe, reassess. I want you to know that many storms pass without intervention; engage only when the essence of the matter resonates. And when you do, tread with a different step, remembering every person's package. If you cherish a flower, nurture it; don't uproot its essence. Let compassion guide you with every interaction, honoring the sacredness of all beings.
When you resist what approaches, its return force can be unyielding, yet you temper its power by embracing it. Likewise, pulling close to what isn’t destined for you risks losing it eternally. Engage with that which aligns with your path, understanding it, holding it dear. Release that which isn't meant for you, respecting its nature. Remember, impermanence is the only constant. Just as the cosmos whirls and we pivot, all is in a ceaseless dance of change. Amid it all, sit still and patient; the universe unfolds its tales with time.
Life isn’t a pilgrimage to a final destination; no grand finale awaits us. Instead, it’s the fleeting moments, the shared laughter, the burning passions, the deep obsessions, and the unwavering love that genuinely matter. It is within these instants that we must find our rhythm and dance. Time's constructs of past and future dissolve, for everything truly exists in the eternal "now." We align with the universe by grounding ourselves in the present, breathing deeply, and loving unconditionally. Embodying the tenets of Brahmavihara — loving-kindness (mettā), compassion (karuṇā), empathetic joy (muditā), and equanimity (upekkhā) — we discover our sanctuary of serenity.
Our vessel, the body, is the foundation of our existence. A resilient mind is tethered to a robust body. True longevity isn't merely about spanning years but thriving within them. In moments of haze and uncertainty, the clarion call is sports, movement, and action. While meditation, nutritious food, ample sleep, and alleviating stress are vital, when lost, always return to physical activity. Success isn’t bound to dawn rituals. Arise and dive into your endeavors, but carve out your routines within the day’s arc and craft them with discipline. Through this unwavering commitment, by owning our actions and remaining authentic to ourselves and others, that success weaves its tale over the sands of time.
Find peace within yourself, and know you are enough (you've been enough since birth; rediscover this truth). Recognize your worth and embrace love. Once you've internalized this, extend your support to others - this is the most profound gift one can give. Every individual has vulnerabilities, but our role is to assist others in mitigating these frailties and enhancing their strengths. The most precious gift in life is to trust someone and then witness their growth and flourishing.